Goodnight, Stanley

It is with deep love and gratitude that we remember the life of Stanley, a true gentleman and one of the gentlest souls ever to grace our herd. Born in 1993, Stanley lived an incredible 32 years – a testament to his strength, spirit, and the love that surrounded him throughout his life.

A beautiful grey gelding and half Thoroughbred by breeding – though not by nature – Stanley defied the stereotype of speed with his calm, steady presence. During his working years with Gaddesden Place Riding for the Disabled (RDA), he offered unwavering support to disabled riders, helping them experience the healing power of horses. Whether it was his reliable temperament, forgiving nature, or his unique party trick of letting a rider stand on his back and somersault off, every moment with Stanley was memorable. He introduced countless riders to the joys of competition, participating in dressage, regional qualifiers, and joint shows with Flamstead Pony Club RDA.

Stanley retired to us in 2015, and for the past 10 years, we had the honour of calling him family. In his twilight years, he enjoyed life’s simple pleasures: rolling in the mud, grazing in the sun, and spending peaceful time with his best friends – especially Kilsyth, who grew particularly close to Stanley in recent months. Stanley had also shared a special bond with retired Lancashire Police Horse Sawley, until we said goodbye to him. They were always side by side, supporting each other through the good times and their ailments. After Sawley’s passing, Stanley found comfort in Kilsyth’s gentle company. Together, they were a picture of quiet companionship, often found grazing side by side in the fields.

Known affectionately as the “grandpa” of our herd, Stanley symbolised everything we stand for – a life of dignity, care, and respect in retirement. Despite the challenges of equine asthma and other age-related conditions, Stanley continued to enjoy his days in his own quiet way, taking comfort in familiar routines and peaceful moments. In the end, as his health declined and his comfort became harder to maintain, we made the heart-wrenching decision to let him go peacefully, surrounded by love, and with plenty of well-deserved treats and neck scratches.

Stanley’s legacy lives on in the lives he touched – both human and equine. His presence brought comfort, joy, and a deep sense of calm to all who knew him. He will be greatly missed by our Equine Care Team, volunteers, and his beloved friend Kilsyth, who is now finding comfort once more among familiar faces.

Rest easy, Stan the Man. Thank you for everything. HTx